pan handling

A rant by: Anonymous

Hello, I learned from my own experience that society rewards the strong, and shows contempt to the weak. Ah yes, these panhandler people may not SEEM weak, after all two legs plus two physical eyes plus the speaking language of English (and some ornamental expressions too) according to the shallow minded people, equates abilities to make it in this "box" we call a world. Well, actually its round.

However, just as you cannot always fit a giraffe into a zip lock baggie, you cannot expect every person to be so savvy in a capitalist society. After all, the world is dysfunctional because of our money system (but would be anyway since people cannot cooperate they only know how to compete). However, there are people out there who do not have their brains wired the same ways as the rest. For example, I am very slightly Aspie, which means, I have a high IQ and an extremely logical ability and artistic ability, but people skills, what are those? I have no clue I am blind as a bat when discovering people's emotional signals. Therefore, when people are acting like jerks because of my genuine misunderstandings, I am the one doing all the work trying to be nice to them! So therefore, it is hard for ME because I cannot be an emotional basket case going with the flow of the majority, I actually THINK before I attempt to react. Whereas most people think AFTER reacting. Alternatively, sometimes it does not happen at all. They just, act like chickens with heads blown off.

anyway, my big POINT is, you are being judgmental. You might see a shell that looks like it COULD function, but in reality, people WOULD fit in and do well if they COULD. It is the fact that, they know deep down that their lot is not to be a clone or robot, and they would probably lend or give you a lot of money if they had any.

However, you, you live on the other side of the fence, you would judge thoughtlessly, and not actually DO anything to help, just walk away. Its human nature to be selfish, and be annoyed with people who make you slight uncomfortable. However, they are making a statement:

the world is not built to work for everyone, just the very very adept at doing this certain thing called buying and selling.

However if the tables turned, I'd say, most people BOMB at sharing, and doing unto their neighbor, they in fact, wouldn't like it if a poor person tried to pay them back because they only give to charity to either feel powerful or fulfill SELFISH needs to feel good that they did something. There is no sacrifice there!

Therefore, I think, the people who dress poor, maybe they need a clothing makeover, but the people who are dressed "nice" and speak "nice" with all flowery niceties etc...who complain about and show contempt towards those they do not understand, actually should go get a personality makeover, or else, just a brain transplant.

I am sick of people saying nasty things about the poor people like this. It is not very wise. I realize society makes a slight accommodation, but, there is NOT enough help out there to REALLY make a difference for these people, Otherwise, they would not be there. In addition, NO they do not have a choice, because no one can really help to be anything other than who they are. In addition, I think, only God could help you too.

I am not a panhandler, but I am sick of the attitude of the ignorant who have nothing better to do that to pick on people who need your help. You are a disgrace to act like this!

I say, instead of those people changing maybe YOU should change. See how good you do.

Anyway, have a nice day.

P.S. sorry but JavaScript doesn’t' work on my browser, get with the times, maybe you need a web designer to show you the "way", because I can't read your terms, they are too far behind in programming "times", and won't come up in my browser. Thanks anyway.

-Deborah


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WinterSix says: 2006-06-04 23:02:00
"I say, instead of those people changing maybe YOU should change. " ........................Well said, in that case, instead of you telling the programmer to change the web page, maybe you should change browsers. ;-)
Anonymous says: 2006-06-05 01:46:42
"Society rewards the strong"? YEAH RIGHT. Why do single teen moms get free money for University and College? Screw a random guy, get rewarded for it! I hate this planet...
scrumtrulescent says: 2006-06-05 10:27:19
I'm going to keep this short and to the point: grrrrrrrrrr.
JetPilot says: 2006-06-05 16:39:09
Your comment "Deborah" suggests its our fault. It's always our fault. It is never the fault of the individual or the family. It's always our fault. Maybe "those" individuals should get a job and earn real money and show society they are at least trying to make it. There are a lot of jobs out there where you don't need an education or can always apply at a temp placement. They are just "scum" on the street and will always be until they die. That is where the City of Winnipeg comes along with a shovel, scoops them up and throws them in the back of a pickup truck with all the others.
FreedomFries says: 2006-06-05 18:03:27
There are a lot of people out there that are so far gone on drugs or solvent abuse that you know they will never be able to fully function as a working citizen, and for those people i agree that there's not much they can do besides beg and live on the streets until they die. But for the healthy people, like the squeegee kids who left home because their parents wouldn't buy them the new XBox 360, or those older guys who rotate between 59 and reindeers, st. marys and bishop, and 59 and fermor, those people should be kicked off the streets. If they can stand all day with their sign that says "they would rather beg than go hungry", they could stand at a McDonalds register for 8 hours selling burgers. Of course they make way more with a begging sign and a knee brace, so why would they ever think of getting a real job.
Anonymous says: 2006-06-05 18:24:22
What were you, HIGH when you wrote this? Stop trying to sound SO intelligent. Get over yourself, write normally. If you talk like you write, no wonder you have trouble getting along with people.
JetPilot says: 2006-06-05 21:23:08
I very much agree with the above comment.
Anonymous says: 2006-06-07 14:50:46
Teenagers with babies do not get free university and college. If you have some evidence that they do, please let me know, I am curious. They go to school under student loans just like everyone else. Deborah: I agree with everything you say.
Anonymous says: 2006-06-08 12:26:48
Anonymous... a knocked up teenager gets a hell of a lot more cash, benefits, programs from the municipal, provincial and federal governments' teats than I as a working man will ever see.
Anonymous says: 2006-06-08 12:30:36
Nothing grinds my butt more than getting out of work after 8 hours, walking to my bus and having some kid ask for some money. It'd be one thing if I was sitting poolside, basking in the sun's rays and taking life easy. Then I might think, boy, too bad this kid doesn't have my life. But when I'm still busy thinking about all the work that is waiting for me tomorrow, and walking in shoes that I've had since before the millenium (despite my moderately above agerage salary) it's all I can do not to let loose with this rant!
30something says: 2006-06-09 18:04:40
Are you calling the people who go to work everyday "clones and robots". That already shows a pretty bad attitude towards people who want to make a living. I see your point thought that SOME people really cannot make ends meet due to emotional and mental disabilities. These are not the people that I complain about. I complain about the people who sleep in until 11 am and then make fun of people who struggle through years of university, going into debt to pay for their schooling and then working theur butt off to make ends meet, working overtime, working weekends, working HARD and long hours and THESE are the people that you call robots? I don't think that people who work their butts off need to pay for people who can't or won't. There is a welfare system. I understand why single mothers and those with physical or mental disabilities or older people need a helping hand and guess what? The "robots" as you call them donate TONS of money to charities already. They donate on their paycheques through their work, Most companies have United Way runs and most teams at work have a Christmas Cheer Board family. I think you have some stereotypes in your head that you need to get rid of. People who choose to work for a living typically are kind responsible charitable people, but most would prefer to give to charities or organizations and not to beggars on the street. sorry.
Anonymous says: 2006-06-21 11:34:31
The only help the panhandlers need, is to go back to mommy and daddy's instead of running away from your problems. I've seen panhandlers with nicer mountain bikes, than I can afford. STOP the MADNESS and STOP GIVING them anything. Buskers, on the other hand, at least are performing, I have no problem giving them a donation.
HaloFire says: 2006-08-18 02:17:47
Another bleeding heart, trying to sell off their ridiculous morals onto us. Deborah, you are a wingnut. You can hand out as much of your hard earned cash to them as you please, and I'll pass you in the next lane laughing. Do you also open all of your spam emails that say: 'YOU HAVE WON 1 MILLION DOLLARS!’? (with a 'sucker' sticker included). As for your disabled bums, have you ever seen Stephen Fletcher, Dr. Stephen Hawking, Stevie Wonder, to name a few? I’m sure these pathetic bums in their $200 Nikes could support themselves. But why? They have you subsidizing their income.
BigB says: 2006-08-25 11:56:25
hear here!!!
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